I've had a lot to say the last two days, so I'm going to take a breath :) and share this space. I'd like to introduce you to my friend Tara Furman. Tara is one of those inspiring people that I'd like to clone and loan to each of you so that you could could share her too, but this interview will have to do. (Don't miss the chance to register for the giveaway at the end!)
Tara has self-published a prayer journal and has just released a new study on having rich quiet times with God. Here's what she had to say about her experience:
1. What was your time like with God before you started this journey? What was missing?
For years, my time with God was a rote, religious activity. It was something that I checked off my list of things to do each day. I sat down – I read – I prayed for the people I was supposed to pray for, and I was off! You could have asked me at lunch time what my devotion was about and I wouldn’t have had a clue.
2. How did you make a change?
In 2005 (I’ll never forget this), I found myself drawn to “My Heart’s Cry”, by Anne Graham Lotz. I reluctantly brought the book into my quiet time and began reading only a page or two a day. [I say reluctantly b/c I used to be very legalistic about books in my quiet time.] However, during my quiet time, it was as if the Scriptures were jumping off the page into my heart – speaking directly to my circumstances. This was not a coincidence. I was encountering the Living God! My life and quiet time have not been the same since!
3. Describe your quiet time basket. (I love this, friends! It’s an idea that has helped me tremendously!!)
Beside my comfy quiet time chair, I have a basket with all the essentials: my Bible, Prayer Journal, Devotional books, Bible study materials, pens, highlighters, tissue, Note cards, a hymnal and a lot of other fun stuff. This keeps me from getting up and becoming distracted by all the other “things” that clamor for my attention: the dryer full of clothes or the dishwasher that needs to be emptied, the freezer screaming, “what are we having for dinner tonight?”, etc…! Also, keeping all my supplies in a basket prevents my spot from becoming cluttered and an eyesore.
4. How would you describe your times with God now?
As of today, and I pray it never ends, but I would describe my time with Jesus as vibrant! Most mornings, I can’t wait to hear what He has to say - especially during times of difficulty which I am experiencing now. He is my Lifeline. Encountering Him each day – not just going through the motions has become a vital necessity.
5. Would you tell us one story about how God spoke to you recently?
Well, I just shared that I am in the midst of a very trying time. As women, our natural inclination is to want to talk about our trials with other women. However, Jesus reminded me again today, that “quietness and trust will be my strength.” (Isaiah 30:15) In other words He said to me, “Tara, continue to keep your mouth shut and trust Me. Trust Me when you can’t see Me working. Trust Me to work out every detail on your behalf.”
God is so real and personal! He wants to shower each of us with the reality of His Presence every day! Only God can speak to the core of our being - replacing the anxiousness in our hearts with peace; our despair for hope and our insecurities for security.
Thanks for sharing, Tara! Find out more about Tara's ministry on her website.
She has generously donated one of her journals, Intimacy with God, for a giveaway. This is my first, so help me out!!
If you'd like to be included, leave a comment telling how you've built intimacy with God in your quiet time OR why you desperately need this prayer journal to begin the journey. Don't forget to include your email address. I'll announce a winner on Friday, so check back in!
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Intimacy With God
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I've just started doing a daily quite time for about a month now, and as I read your blog, it really spoke to me. Tara's version of her old quiet times are exactly what I've been doing. I'm happy that I've stuck with it and followed through, but it feels more like I've checked something off of my to-do list than I've actually had an intimate conversation with my savior. I NEED more intimacy! I just don't know how to begin.
Also, I love your 3-column explanation of how to read the bible. How many verses do you read with that? Is it verse by verse? Thank you so much for helping all of us come closer to Him!
Sarah - saradrew@comcast.net
I struggle daily in this walk since its all so new to me I wonder daily...'am I doing this right?' but right or wrong I begin each day with reading something spiritual and that is how I also end my day.. somedays though when all of life seems to bear down on us it seems like taking that time IS just one more thing.. but I am always so thankful when I do... I may not always 'hear' Him speaking to me directly but then again there are times I do and I never want to miss those times, ever.. but anything to help me become more intimate with God is always appreciated, especially for a newbie just wondering if she's doing it right :o)
Kim - kim_botdorf@yahoo.com
Thank you for your devotional today. It had some great ideas, and I am excited about incoperating them into my quiet time. I used to do inductive bible study a few years ago, and I grew a lot spiritually during that time. I learned a lot about looking at scripture on my own, and interpeating it. It gave me a lot of confidence to drawn my own conclusions, and taught me to really listen to what God was saying to me as an individual.
Jill
jillhoke@yahoo.com
I have a great desire to have the spiritual intimacy with God during my quiet times, but my quiet times are few and far between right now as I have an 18 month old and my mind gets easily side tracked during her nap times and before I know it she is awake and I have not taken the time to spend with God. I need this journal to help me on my journey that I long desire to have and deepen my relationship with the Lord. I read your blog for the first time today and plan on checking back often. Thank you for sharing your words with us.
Emily
emilyfleener@gmail.com
I have finally started having a quiet time since June. I start my mornings off with P31 each day and they have been such a blessing to me! I am so busy like most moms that I read the devotion quickly and then I'm off! I desperatly need and want to spend more time in bible study so God can speak to me. I would love this journal to help me get started. The P31 speakers, blogs, and comments from others have really encouraged me! My email is pattydinkins@hotmail.com
I could definitely use a little boost during my quiet time. I always read my Bible but need to dig deeper in study. I tend to be one of those "check it off my list" gals.
Amy,
My prayer team has really enjoyed your post over the past couple of days on the P31 devotion. Tara's interview was the cherry on the sundae this morning! My quiet time is continually evolving because there are so many rich prayers out there that touch Him and change our lives! Thanks for a great post and introducing us to Tara!
I love your suggestions on how to break down the verses & I would love this prayer journal to help me create specific quiet time in His word. Thank you for sharing His love with so many! ceddins965@yahoo.com
As I was reading my Bible during my morning devotion, I realized I had read an entire chapter and had no idea what it said. Thinking about it, I discovered that is what happens more often than not. Even when I try to focus on the the meaning of each chapter, my mind often wanders to all kinds of topics.
Your P31 devotion today and this information from Tara were exactly what I needed to help me begin to be more intimate with God. I long for my need for pleasure to be satisfied by Him rather than the things of this world. That is my prayer today.
Thank you.
Thanks for the opportunity. I have a "routine" but sometimes I let the routine become too ritualistic. I look for new and different approaches to keep it fresh and real.
tammons at triad dot rr dot com
Thank you for sharing some great ideas to help with our quiet time with God. So many times my "quiet time" with God is in preparation for something and not truly time just for me to draw closer to my Lord. I think using a journal would make it more intimate and rewarding. grammy.25@comcast.net
Amy your last 2 P31 devotions have been used to speak to my life, Thank You for sharing! I love the 3 column plan and plan to try it. I am working on making time for God in my busy life. Before having children, it was easy to make time for God and I had an awesome prayer session with him. Two children later, I find myself struggling to make time and a lackluster relationship. ~Janelle njlmbrt2006@yahoo.com
I am at the beginning of my quiet time journey with God. I would love this journal because I am not a natural morning person and often find it difficult to focus on His words and really take meaning out of them. Thank you for the great ideas in your devotional this morning.
sarahlscott@gmail.com
Hi, Amy!
Oh I have soaked up yesterday and today's devotion. Thank you! My heart is in one accord with you and Tara...and many other women I am sure! God is good!
My quiet time with the Lord is the most precious, protected and important part of my day. Not because I have arrived, but because He has placed eternity in the hearts of men (and women). I know my desperate, daily need for His Word. He is my portion indeed.
My "special place" is my dining room table. And I do have a basket there. :) How fun that Tara does the basket idea! What a great gift idea for a friend!
Our P31 Gather & Grow is starting our new study in a few weeks. The Bible study "triology" by Nancy Leigh DeMoss "Brokenness, Surrender, Holiness". Just this morning, I shared with the Lord that I'd love a new journal for the study. Perhaps this is it. I'll be ordering one (unless I happen to win). But honestly, I like others to win! :)
Thanks, Amy! And thanks, Tara!
Thanks for the last two days of devotions. I have been trying to meet with God everyday for the last three months. Sometimes when life gets crazy, I have missed a day, but I'm trying.
Deb - dvolkman@bright.net
I praise God having me check my emails today. Yesterday I rec'vd this one but didn't read it, so today when I checked my emails I saw I hadn't rec'vd today's so decided to read yesterday's. What a blessing to me. Once I read Tara's experience I realized that is exactly what I am going through. I teach a Bible study on Thursday nights and am currently taking classes to learn how to witness to muslims. As I am on fire about learning and teaching and leading others to Christ I have been feeling like something has been missing. I realized that I too need to take in a deep breath of the Spirit for myself. I have fallen into the same trap of reading the Bible to prepare but not for me. I have asked God, where are you? What's wrong with me? And today I have seen what has happened. I also just moved so my life life is topsy turvy and in boxes. As I begin to discipline my quiet time with the Lord the Intimacy With God would be a great companion in helping me to focus and put Him as my priority. I want to thank you for this opportunity and to thank God for blessing you my sister with wisdom to pass on to all of us!
With two kids under two, I'm having a hard time finding any time to be quiet with God. I need help!
Prayers and blessings,
Rebecca
Tara...Thank you so much for your words, they have encouraged and refreshed me. I am going through a difficult time right now and my normal prayer life has been disrupted. I know I need to find more time to spend quietly with my Father and really listen. Thank you for the book by Anne Graham Lotz, I will look for it and try the system she suggested to study.
Sue rsreutzel@yahoo.com
Thank you for your wonderful devotional. I've recently retired from my "official" pastoral asst. position after 15 years at the same church. Now it's time to start fresh with God's new direction for my life. I really appreciate the insight and encouragement.
It's amazing to see so many other women struggling with a meaningful quiet time with God. I just feel stale and I want to truly experience a loving father daughter relationship with my creator. I just can't find any consistency within me and I get distracted from my quiet times so easily. Thank you for your advice in this devotion! I'm anticipating a fresh and vibrant walk with my heavenly Father! my email is sannarobins@gmail.com
a lifetime of church, christian school and bible studies has left me wondering what's left for me in the area of deeper relationship with God. I felt close to him as a kid and young adult, but then life got louder and more invasive. now with three kids of my own, I need something more dramatic than "another fresh start."
Amy, your words (and Tara's) the last two days have comforted, challenged and inspired me to at least reach for this meaningful quiet time, that it is something that does exist and is there for me to grasp.
gotta go take advantage of these quiet moments I have right now, please enter me in your giveaway!
Krista
krista (at) cyburdine (dot) com
My biggest issue with a daily quiet time is that I don't do it daily. I don't regularly feel the power of God in my quite times and because of my living situation, it's nearly impossible to have enough peace and quite to hear Him speak to me. I long so much to hear His voice! I have been a Christian since I was about 7 and need more than just Bible stories. I want to have a deep, intimate relationship with God bringing Him glory and in the process joy for myself.
Thank you for your words of encouragement from today's Crosswalk devotion. And thank you for sharing your friend Tara with us.
kellybethrussell@gmail.com
I think two people reference the 3 column plan... what is that, woman? I can't seem to find anything by that tag.
Thanks for sharig this interview. My quiet time with the Lord just recently has been more deep and meaningful to me. I used to feel like it was a chore in a way, eve though I knew it wasn't that. I feel so privilged to be able to open the binding of my falling apart bible and get into God's word. There are those out there that don't have one... have never seen one. I take that for granted sometimes.
I'm going to try the basket idea. I love it! I have about 3 different bags that site on the side of the couch with my different books and notebooks and other things. A basket would sure do a better job!
Love you, girl!!
Thank you for the 3 column idea for understanding scripture - I love it!! Also, going to get a "quiet time basket" set up - and make them for our 5 daughters. I have been experiencing more intimacy and hearing Him speak as I have been praying for it - God is so good - He talks to me often through the P31 daily devotions - they are great!
Please enter me in the drawing:
sherryhallauer@neb.rr.com
This is a topic that has been speaking to my heart for some time. I keep telling myself I need to sit and have time with God but the distractions get in the way. My daughter just joined the Navy and now I have more time but I just haven't been able to get to that point. I know that God is definately speaking to me now to start.
I will admit that I struggle with daily quiet time with God. I will also shamefully admit that too often it ends up being a weekly (not daily) quiet time. I have been really trying to get back on track lately and this prayer journal and your suggestion of the columns I feel like will be very helpful in my journey.
Kelly
kelly.martin.j9b6@statefarm.com
As I stated above, I have been distracted. I forgot to leave my email address.
Rose - Beatlemum@aol.com
I have 4 children 6 and under...and desire to have more of a quiet time with the Lord. I could use the prayer journal as a boost in that direction..
deb(dot)hester(at)yahoo(dot)com
I have been having a daily quite time for sometime now. I read through the entire bible and had some amazing revelations of who God is and why it is so important to have this time with him. There were many mornings when I would be so crushed by a lost friend or my own sin I would have to write it down. I even shared this prayer with my daughter one morning and we cryed together. I have now seen what it has done in my daughters life. She has a note book she uses at night to make notes for each verse of scripture she reads and every morning when she wakes up she writes down her prayers. She is faithful in this time she spends with God and It is an amazing gift to me to see her growing in the Lord through it. What a blessing. I was so drawn to your message because this very intimate time with God for me has become more of a routine and I long for that intimacy I experience when I first started. I need the discipline of writing things down as you shared and as my daughter is doing. I have been intimidated because I was never a note taker in school and didn't do well in this area. I do realize though that there is much God still wants to show me. So I am grateful to you for sharing these tools which have encouraged me in drawing closer to Him and help restore my joy for His word.
I forgot to leave my email address to be included in the drawing for the journal.. it is
Living4Him_300@hotmail.com
Thank you once again....Teresa
Amy,
I have LOVED your devotionals the past 2 mornings, and then coming here to see what you wrote!
I think that probably my biggest problem is I am not a great morning person. I have had to start getting up earlier with the kids, to get Peter to school. So now I have only a 3 1/2 yr old at home. She does really good playing on her own, but I can't seem to get up early enough to have much more than a quick prayer and read through my devotionals before i have to get the kids going.
Once I get home from dropping Peter at school, I find I get "into" my day, and don't have the time to take out and spend with God... ok, scratch that, I don't make the time....
I'd love to be entered into the contest because I definitely need help getting into doing this, and getting deeper into the word.
Love and God bless,
Heather
I found it. D'oh! It was sitting in my inbox. lol
I know you have my email, but I'll be sweet to ya and post it.;-)
endeavor2@bellsouth.net
Thank you so much for the suggestions. I long for intimacy with God, but feel I'm a long way from achieving that goal. My daily Bible readings seem to be more out of a sense of duty than the joy I long for it to be. Hopefully your ideas and suggestions will help as I continue with my daily devotions.
Nina - davidandninamoore@comcast.net
After many years away I have renewed my relationship with God. As a child I went to church and prayed because that is what I was expected to do. The relationship I have now is completely different from how it was. There are no words to describe the changes God has led me to make in my life. I also have difficulty with thinking "am I doing it right?" I would love love to win the spiritual guide. However, if I don't, I may also buy it. :-) Thank you for all that you do. God Bless!
I know and love Tara very much. She is a treasure. I have her journal and recommend it to the women at church. It has blessed many of us and has been a great tool in helping us draw closer to God in our quiet times. Thanks for sharing. Love, Diane Rumley
Women's Ministry Director,
Potter's Hand Bible Church
I so needed to read this today! I have been struggling, hanging by a thread onto God's word. At times I feel alone and exasperated, I feel like screaming out to someone to HELP ME! But I stay quiet and I know that's what God intends for me. I haven't been in church, or part of anything Christian related in over 2 years, not because I don't want to but because I'm on "hold". I'm not going to cry or be upset if I don't win a book, even if it would help. I am going to push through and try to cling closer to God. Thanks for sharing yourself with us.
I am struggling with my daily quiet time on a number of different levels. I am definitely going to use the basket idea and prayerfully exert the self-discipline to seek God first. I have become lazy and wonder in and out of conversations with God throughout my day praying for others but I NEED to seek Him for what He has for me each day. Thank you for sharing Tara with us and thank you for your post today and sharing your scripture study method. I will also be using those thoughts in my daily time with God. His and yours, lisa
Honestly, I just read some verses in the Bible for my quiet time and never wrote anything down, so the part Tara said about not remembering what I studied is definitely me.
I love your 3-column way of studying God's word. It really clicked with me and I am going to start using that.
Lisa saner4@yahoo.com
I have just started working quiet time into my daily life. I have spent a long time away from church and shutting God out. I am working on fixing my relationship with God in order to strengthen my family. I struggle with how to study my bible, pray and complete my devtional each day.
I can certainly relate to Tara's comment about how her quiet time with God used to be "rote" and pretty much forgotten by lunchtime. I know what I desire from my quiet time with God - and when I read the experiences of others, I can feel my heart saying, "yes, yes!"...but I continue to struggle each morning and am easily distracted. I want to draw close to God but am longing for some direction.
By the way...THANKS for your Proverbs 31 devotional on Bible Study! I'm definitely going to try it!
Kimberly - kim.iannelli@gmail.com
I have been a christian for many many years but I never know if I am doing the right things. I pray and ask God to show me but I am afraid it's the devil making it seem like it's god telling me. I pray everyday as much as things come up. I'd love to have a copy of any book that might help me. thank you for this blog, I just found it a few days ago.
af3147@yahoo.com
My quiet times have been more rote lately than intimacy. Will try Tara's method so that maybe my walk with Jesus will become more intimate.
I'm sorry . . . forgot email: slpriebefam@yahoo.com
Wow, what good advice and so encouraging. We get so caught up as women to go and do, I never realized my quiet time is lacking.
I would love this prayer journal. I need guidance and direcion with my quiet time. I just seem like I am always distracted. It is good to hear others too struggle and I am not the only one.
Michele= michelerod6@verizon.net
Over the years I've tried having a quiet time but could never learn to be consistent with it. Have been in several bible studies and spent time studying the bible to answer the questions.
Think part of the problem was truly understanding the verses I was reading and how they applied to my life. The post today from Proverbs 31 He Speaks-Part 11 may possibly help make a big difference in my like. Now I will know how to read and seperate out the different aspect of the verse.
My problem now is where do I start studying? I'm so used to structured study with the bible studies that I don't know where to start with my own study. Thanks, Chris
Great interview! I have used many "things" but the thing that is lacking most is my committment and desire to have a quiet time. I wonder sometimes if I am afraid to hear HIM speak?
Thanks for sharing your method of 3 columns and for the interview about quiet times. I need something to get me back on track...this might just do it! : )
dnmemphis07@yahoo.com
Let me preface this by saying I am a heavy girl. My physical weight goes up and down but mostly it's an up sort of thing. Lately we're definitely in an up-swing.
I've practiced a quiet time in the past but it NEVER has lasted the 30 days required to make it a habit. Since July, I can count on one hand the number of times I missed my morning quiet time. And I can also attest to the fact that I am purely miserable with out it. I find myself sending the kids outside so I can read a few verses in solitude. I truly miss my Savior when I miss my morning meeting with Him. The difference this time?? As I go to bed each night (most nights) I pray and ask God to meet me in the morning. He is faithful, with out and alarm clock, I am up before the family and drinking in His words.
Back to the weight thing...I've had several people lately ask me if I've lost weight lately. I smile and chuckle, the only weight I've lost is the emotional baggage that I've been carrying around like forgiveness, fear, doubt, anger and so on...the Word is teaching me what God wants for me and what I need to cling to and what I need to let go of. Now I let everything of no importance go and cling to Him!
Thank you for offering your book as a giveaway!
Bobbey S
CreativeCardChaos@NC.rr.com
Thank you so much for the last 2 days of devotionals. I need these suggestions on how to have a more personal time with God. I have really gotten in a rut with my time with Him. I am going to take your ideas and incorporate them today. Thank you for being God's light to us. Betsy byquiltn1@gmail.com
It is difficult for me to find quiet time to connect with God. I sing for Him, taking time preparing my music, and I spend time in intercessory prayer, but I do not always feel that vibrant, living connection that I want to feel. It seems those special times with God are so fleeting, and I would like to know Him more so that my walk with Him would be all that I know it could be. I need to set aside some special time just to be with Him. This prayer journal would be a welcome guide in my prayer life. Thank you for the posts and for sharing. Colleen
colleenreske@yahoo.com
Amy,
I popped over just to say "thank you" for your great P31 devos (part I and II). I needed them both in a BIG way!
I am so excited to be in the drawing, however, for the prayer journal!.
Thank you!
Love,
Tammy
I read my Bible everyday, but most days it does feel just like a routine. When Tara said that by lunchtime she couldn't remember what she read today it really hit home with me. I want so much more. Thanks for the chance to win the prayer journal.
kimwhite62@gmail.com
I want to thank Tara for sharing with us her personal experiences in her walk with God. I now understand that I am not the only one who goes through things like that. I mean I love God, it's just sitting down and just giving him that quality/quiet time and really soaking all he has to speak to us. I recently married, 1 month to be exact, and I feel I can learn a lot from this and it can help me both in my relationship with my savior and in my marriage to become the woman my Savior wants me to be.
tmorenamexaol.com
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