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Thursday, May 26, 2011

What Would Jesus Tweet?

Thanks so much for coming by today! Isn't it amazing how our computers allow us to have this connection? I truly love it.

I love the connection that I can have with you through blogs and Facebook (I'm considering Twitter but am a techie lightweight), but I have been pondering the fulfillment that comes from face time over Facebook time for quite a while. When I was feeling Lonely, I don't think Facebook would have been much help. Here are some thoughts...I'd love your response.

God could have sent Jesus into any time of His choosing. Why didn’t He send Jesus during our day? Surely using television and internet would have been a more effective way to get the Word out. He could have Tweeted the Beatitudes one at a time. He could have done simulcasts to the multitudes without even needing to feed them. His message could have gone viral on YouTube, and Jesus surely would have had to apply for celebrity status on Facebook to “friend” the millions who requested Him. It would have been a highly efficient way to transmit the Light of the World.

Well, I confess that I don’t know exactly why God sent Jesus into a day and age with no telephones, television or internet. But maybe, just maybe, His choice of time sends us a message. Jesus chose deep relationships and creating a place a true belonging for His disciples as the way to transmit His message forward in time until He comes again. He was the one who created us in His own image with an inescapable need for face-to-face, heart-to-heart relationship. Maybe God sent Jesus when He did to show us that a place of true belonging with God and others is the only way to satisfy the longings of our souls.

I remember doing Beth Moore’s study Jesus the One and Only years ago. She explained Jesus’ relationships as an ever expanding set of concentric circles. In the circle closest to him were Peter, James and John. John was described as the disciple that Jesus loved, and the other two were always along on special outings like the Transfiguration. Jesus seemed to have an especially close relationship with these men, and that relationship was reflected in the time that He spent with them.

In the next circle out were the rest of the disciples. Jesus invested 3 years of His life in these men. They ate together, traveled together, healed together and fished together. Jesus taught them while they were “doing life,” and these relationships were the means by which the gospel would be spread world-wide.

Moving outward, the next circle included Jesus’ friends and family. I imagine people like Mary, Martha and Lazarus in this circle. These were people that scriptural accounts show had a special connection to Jesus. He spent time with them, and they knew Him well enough to call immediately when their brother fell ill. Mary, Jesus’ mother, and His brothers might also have been in this circle. The last circle contained the multitudes.

Although I can only strive to love everyone equally in my circles as Jesus did those in His circles, I can certainly use His life as a model. My inner circle contains those that I love, trust and “do life” with. The other circles can be friends and then acquaintances. I don’t have any multitudes following me, but maybe that’s where Facebook naturally falls. My friend list is my “multitude”! They are people that I love and have cultivated relationship with to varying degrees. That picture helps me to keep social networking in a proper perspective. It’s a means to relationship but not the primary means.

What do you think? Do you think social networking eases or increases America's loneliness problem?

16 comments:

Kelli Williams Wommack said...

I think it increases the loneliness problem because Facebook gives the appearance of connection...status updating, looking at other's stauses and pictures. But the reality is you haven't really had a two way communication. I am a Facebooker, but I use it primarily to touch base with people that are inaccessible - international friends, etc. I aam convinced that Christ wants us to have deep, meaningful relationships. Social networking can rob of us the time that we can spend truly connecting!

Karen said...

Facebook and internet have helped me through a difficult season, same as you described on P31 blog today. But it certainly isn't a solution. I think the greater problem is busyness...trying to do it all, all the time...and not making relationships a priority. But learning to be a good friend to others is a great place to start. One by one we can turn this situation around!

sagreen125 said...

this is the stage I am in, I do feel like on most part facebook and internet make it more lonely. We have lost touch.
People get too busy and don't make time to just visit with one another.
It is hard when as only believer in extended family even our extended families ignore us. The only thing is that I have pressed more into God.

Bonnelle Pagel said...

For me... I would say it increases my loneliness. I look at people's pictures and see all the things they are doing and here I am.. no updates or pictures. I joined facebook as a way to connect but it doesn't really connect me to anyone on my list. For me... I think I need to get out and "do". Do the things you listed in your devotional. Call people... go for walks with people... get into their lives rather than just trying to get a glimpse in through a computer screen.

Just my thoughts...

Kristi Butler said...

Hey Amy!
Wow! Fabulous devotion and blog post! God speaks through you so beautifully.

I find the comments regarding Facebook so interesting. I've wavered as to whether to open an account, not wanting it to consume time that I should be doing other things. Hmmm...thought provoking.

Lastly, I just have to say that I am so thankful that I can call you my friend! You are a treasure!!

Love and hugs!

Savannahhutchinson1208 said...

I believe it increases loneliness. There is no face -face relationship. I stronlgy believe it to cause more problems then help. It gives society the thought that they are connected with tons of people that the effort and time that it take to invest in having a real friendship often seems to be too much. Also, when you are alone looking at outsiders photos for group outings or get togethers only increasing that feeling. My husband changed the tv for a brief second to a talk show and the couple was talking about problems they had and they started on facebook. I believe that although the connecting of distant family and friends is fantastic..It is easy to misuse these social networks because they are available not only on the internet but via mobile as well.

Jennifer said...

I disagree that it increases lonliness. Being homeward bound, I find vast resources of the Lord, on the internet. There is still so much lacking. I believe that there is a calling to Christians to make it a more Godly place, and it has helped me greatly stay in tune with my religion. I can find clothes, jewelry, and acessories to promote and celebrate my faith, where I cannot leave my house to go out and find them. I want more Christians on the net connecting. It is my everyday bible study in email, forums to discuss problems, and also prayer boards to get many people to pray for me. God gave us this tool. We choose to use it for good or bad. I choose to use it to promote christ. My facebook profile is now of religious material. I got lots of likes on it and it made me feel good. Being homeward bound and choosing to use it for good is a good tool not bad.

Anita - Soaring Eagle said...

I do like Blogs better; however, when I want to know how my niece is in South Carolina or my other niece in California - FB is good! I like the idea too that I can share video's on FB and people put pictures. So, I guess my opinion is I like all communications! They all have a purpose. Yes, I would much rather be with people, but we can't always do that. So, I thank God for FB, Blogs, telepone, and snail mail. Plus, I am never alone because JESUS is with me, I have learned that, and I BELIEVE THAT!

Carol said...

I'm mostly a Facebook looker--I rarely post. When I do, it is under my husband's name--but the picture is of both of us. I think it is great to see pictures and updates of our extended family and friends. (One friend posts inspiring videos!) I read my daily devotions online; but if I run out of time, I don't visit facebook every day. I really enjoy Proverbs 31 posts!

Maureen Wild said...

I'd love to share that there is a Christian ministry called JustMoved.org that is specifically to help women who have moved. It has been a huge blessing for me.

Anonymous said...

A little of both. What I fear is that overall social media -- Facebook and Twitter in particular -- are moving us towards disconnections instead of connection. This is the work of a dark world; not the work of God. We need to resist popular culture's forces and continue to shine our personal light in this world through our face-to-face, authentic relationships with other. ~ Linda ~

Dorothy said...

I think it increases loneliness because you don't really know how the person is and viceversa and it is too impersonal.

findingpiece said...

I LOVE THIS POST!

I am not anti-FB or Twitter, whatsoever, however I do not have an account on either one.

Now, I have had a FB account, and closed it a couple of years ago.

I think FB, Twitter and even e-mail to an extent, give us an excuse to NOT put as much in our relationships. It acts a substitute for fellowship.

We tell ourselves that we've fulfilled the role of "good friend" by commenting on a picture, sending condolences or well wishes by posting on a wall...instead of truly celebrating in fellowship. I have been guilty of this very thing!! :(

God called us to be in fellowship, and by definition it is a group of people meeting for a common interest. MEETING! :)

Amy, thank you for tackling this topic. I can be a sticky wicket...both ways, but God gave you beautiful insight to help us take a look at our TRUE friendships.

I only get to know Christ better by actually spending time with Him in prayer and reading of His word...not just "like"ing Him. ;)

daragentry said...

Thank you for our "face" time today. I love it way more than facebook time. Not saying facebook or e-mail are bad. I love being connected to old friends, but I'm glad God sent Jesus when he did and that it is such an example of how important face to face relationships are!!!

kristina said...

I have found FB can be good or bad for dealing with my loneliness. I realy have a problem making friends, so FB lets me get to know people better. The negative side is that is when I have FB friends from church that seem to be geting out and metting up more, make me feel isalated. One thing that touch me about your blog is reaching out because thats what I feel that Jesus is helping me deal with that felling. So now I'm helping my friend bild a closer relaship with Jesus. The next step is to get her to come to church with me.

Mary Singer Wick said...

Great question, Amy! I'm not on Facebook. I like to email people. I can share more intimately with people that way (including sending photos)when I can't talk on the phone or see them in person. To me, FB taps into the "People Magazine" fantasy in all of us, yet it seems so superficial. I think it leads to people feeling left out, lonely and discouraged more than it makes them feel connected. It's too much of an invasion of my privacy for me to be on it, but I do believe FB (and other social media) can be used for good or evil. It's all in the choices of what you post out there, and who you connect with. I know married Christian friends who are reconnecting with past loves. I believe that is a recipe for disaster. Fantasies can ruin your life! For now, I will stick to my blog and email. Thanks for sharing your heart on this topic!

Blessings,
Mary